12 Common Decluttering Myths That You Can Ignore

Inside: A list of 12 decluttering myths we will dispel so you can ignore them and achieve the tidy, peaceful home you deserve.

Decluttering doesn’t come naturally to everyone and you may be someone who wants to declutter but certain ideas (myths really) are holding you back from this valuable task.

Reservations about decluttering are understandable but these self limiting beliefs could be keeping you from the peaceful and clutter-free home you want.

Let’s debunk several popular decluttering myths and reset the mindset for a new perspective. Below are 12 popular decluttering myths you can ignore and stop using as excuses so you can get the clutter out of your home once and for all.

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12 Decluttering Myths

1. I don’t have time for decluttering, I am busy with work and family.

This is probably one of the biggest decluttering myths. The good news is decluttering does not have to take up a whole weekend or hours of time. You can find small ways to blend decluttering into your everyday life. If you think of it as “too big” you’ll never want to get started.

Go after small, manageable chunks of space (i.e., one shelf, one drawer, one cabinet). The name of the game is progress, not perfection. You will still enjoy the benefits of decluttering even with small increments of time and progress.

2. Why declutter when it just gets messy again?

Yes, messes always happen. But once you start decluttering it is much easier to maintain daily messes inside your home, creating a more welcoming, tidier environment for you and your family. Decluttering clears your physical space and will help you avoid the cycle of a messy house, plus with less “stuff” to manage, you’ll have less mess to deal with.

3. No one in my family cares about decluttering.

Are you sure? It’s possible you assume this but don’t really know. Perhaps your family simply needs some encouragement to keep a tidier home. Your feelings and stress matter; you can’t change people but you can change your surroundings.

Let your family know the benefits of decluttering and you may be able to abolish this myth that they don’t care. Once everyone is on board with how decluttering improves the home environment, even if they didn’t care before, they will soon see the value of less clutter (i.e., easier to locate things like shoes, homework, car keys, less mess to move around, a more comfortable home).

Use this graphic to remind family members of the value in keeping a decluttered home:

4. I don’t want to spend money on pricey containers to be organized.

This decluttering and organizing myth is perpetuated by the endless “perfection” pictures on social media and the like. The truth is you do not need fancy new organizers like those you see in magazines and social media reels – you can use what you have around the house.

Just about anything can be used to organize and contain items such as mason jars, recyclable bags, tupperware containers, different sized bowls. If you do need a few new things to create more organization and want to stay on a budget, consider the Dollar Tree Store. It has many cheap options for organizing things around the house. This is about creating a cleaner, tidier home with less stuff, not creating a Joanna Gaines-worthy house!

5. It has to look perfect or why bother.

This is one of the biggest decluttering myths out there. Similar to the myth above, there is no need for perfection. This is about attainability and sustainability – not a Pinterest or Instagram-worthy pantry, living room or closet.

Progress is much more important and realistic. You just want a decluttered, organized home to keep the daily flow and function running as smoothly as possible, not a home where you must maintain too high a standard.

6. I’m not naturally organized so my home never will be.

It’s true not everyone is naturally organized, but that doesn’t mean you can’t be. You can follow simple daily practices to keep your home decluttered and organized without putting in place hard-to-follow rules. Organizing looks different for everyone, there is no one right way to do it. You can find a way to keep your home tidy and in place without being an organization guru.

7. Decluttering is not for me because I don’t want to be a minimalist.

Another popular decluttering myth…the idea that you have to be messy or bare, with nothing in-between. Decluttering is not so black and white.

You can remove the excess stuff out of your home without stripping it down to a minimalist environment. Decluttering is about removing what’s no longer useful, needed or bringing you joy…not removing everything. There is a happy middle ground!

8. Getting rid of things I spent money on is wasteful.

Certainly no one wants to waste money. So its understandable that once you buy something you feel like you must use it or keep it, otherwise it was a waste.

Remember, at this point the purchase is done (unless it’s a returnable item) so there is no need to regret a past decision. It is better to move forward and get rid of something that doesn’t work for you as it frees up mental and physical space which is valuable as well. Money is not the only valuable commodity in life.

9. I’m sure I’ll use it one day, so I’m holding on to it for a “rainy day.”

How long have you been waiting for that “rainy day?” If you have been saying this to yourself for a while and said item still goes unused, this is clearly a decluttering myth. Generally six to twelve months is plenty of time to see if an item is useful, as it gives you a full year of opportunities to use it.

If the item continues to collect dust, it’s time to declutter. The rainy day is clearly not going to arrive, so the item(s) is taking up valuable space in your home. Be honest with yourself about your true intentions and time available with what you own.

Versions of this decluttering myth:

I plan to lose weight and may need these clothes again.
I have been meaning to fix this item/gadget/appliance, I’ll find time eventually.
I want to take up this craft/hobby/passion, so I’m sure I’ll use these supplies someday.

The same idea applies to the decluttering myth versions above. If a significant amount of time has passed, you can be confident what you are holding onto is not offering any value or importance.

10. Wonder if my children want this one day?

This is a common decluttering myth among older generations, my own mother included! I appreciate the idea of passing down items to children (with three of my own I wonder what they will want from their childhood home) but more often than not, what seems to be special can actually be a burden to people.

While certain valuable items may be worth keeping, generally it’s just stuff and holding onto things for your child to have later in life will be a burden neither you nor they deserve. Have the conversation now with your older or adult-age kids to see what they may even like to have and free up space for yourself if these are not items worth saving.

11. I don’t need to declutter, I just need to be more organized.

Organizing and decluttering are both important, yet different things. Decluttering must always come before organizing. If you feel your home is messy and overrun with clutter, avoid the trap of just putting all the stuff into containers and spinning your wheels organizing things that you don’t even need.

Decluttering is a must-do first step before organizing your home. Get rid of what no longer serves you and you’ll truly see what organizing needs to be done. Organized clutter is still clutter.

12. So-and-so gave me that and I don’t want to hurt their feelings by getting rid of it.

It is understandable you want to preserve someone’s feelings, but what about yours? If the gifted item is something that no longer serves you well (or never did) this is up to you to keep it or not. You don’t want to hold onto things that clutter your space and affect your home or wellbeing. I doubt the gift giver would want that either.

If the item was something extra special or meaningful with sentimental value (like an heirloom) you can decide to hold on to it or involve the gift giver in what to do with it. But run-of-the-mill gifts don’t need to clutter your home or make you feel guilty for moving on from it.